It's all a decision babe. That's it.

It’s all a decision babe. That’s it.

Do you know how I made $20K in sales in my 3rd month in business. I decided. That’s how.

Do you know how I had my first $100,000 month in sales. I decided. That’s all.

I decided.

Every time I’ve wanted something, had an up-level, creating something new in my life it’s because I decided.

Now I know that might feel super annoying to hear because you’re trying, doing all the things, working your ass off, being relentless….

But it’s not about that.

More work doesn’t equal more accomplishment. It does at times equal more success in terms of money, but not all the things. Not the fulfillment and actual purpose work or level of impact you really want in the way that you want it.

The beautiful thing is though that you have to be where you are now to get to where you’re going. That’s how it works.

And you aren’t going anywhere to actually get anywhere. I know, it sounds weird.

But that’s the truth. The whole thing is about the journey of being and experiencing and desiring and loving and having an amazing life!

You just get things that you desire because you desire them and choose to have them. That whole DECIDING thing.

Then you get the thing (receive really) and then you have another desire. So it’s not like you get anywhere to be anywhere. You receive what you desire when you’ve decided that you ought to have it and now..thank you very much.

That’s basically how it goes.

Some call it being an energetic match and it is that.

Some call it being aligned. And it is also that!

But the whole equation is see what you want, decide that it is yours and then expect it to be on its way to you.

It’s a little flip in your brain - like the tiniest little switch that you have to flip on and then it’s done.

It’s done as long as you keep the switch flipped. If the switch flips back down, well then you’ve got to start all over in deciding and expecting.

Nothing wrong with that. It just is.

But is IS how it works.

So decide. Expect. Receive.

That’s it.

I’ll let you in on a little secret that’s not so secret at all.

When I did that first $20K month, it wasn’t like I was just sitting around doing nothing. I was getting myself into belief all the time.

I had affirmations on my wall.

I was chanting what I wanted in the shower, on my bike, by myself in my room.

And I had turned off my phone and energy (really) to anyone who I knew would have doubt about my business. This new thing I was creating and really had finally decided to make happen.

I only did that for about a month or so, but I knew that I had to have ONLY my thoughts that I was creating, in that moment.

I knew that I could not allow in the doubt from other people. So I told no one about my plan and went all in with my belief.

Then I asked - in every moment. What would you have me do next? What is the next action to take?

Sure, I had some kind of a plan at that moment, but it was channeled too.

Get on livestream, talk about this thing, tell people about your Facebook Group and your program. It’s essentially the exact same thing that I do now.

Not complicated, but the work is in the deciding, staying there until it’s an expectation that this thing is on its way and then being in the energy of receiving.

Joy, love, abundance, gratitude. Ohhhh lordy the deep gratitude.

It’s all of that.

So when you hear that you have to have certainty, well you do. That’s what expectation is. You have to flip that tiny tiny switch in your head to belief. Complete and total belief that what you want is yours already.

It’s kind of like living in a dream world in your head. That’s actually really a solid accurate statement of how it sometimes feels.

But you have to remember that the reality isn’t just what you physically see in your world. It’s actually also what you are thinking and feeling. The thoughts and feelings come first and the physical reality is always created second.

So yes, you’re in that state about what you choose to happen, believing it to the point where you know it’s on its way even when it isn’t here yet, but it is…in your mind. Then it appears.

Because the universe always rearranges itself for you and you always get the best actions for you to take (receive them in your mind as inspiration) when you are in this state. Best meaning the ones that get you what you want the fastest.

Life is meant to feel free. It’s mean to be joyful. It’s meant to have higher and higher levels of joy and work for you.

Will there be conflict or things you don’t like - yeah, that’s called being human and it’s how you know what you do like.

But if you know that you get to decide what you do want and then call it in AND you get to choose a new reality AND you get to choose how you react to anything that comes your way, then baby you’re golden. You’re free.

So that’s my message for today. That’s everything that I feel is coming out. It took me a while to get this bad boy out today because I was just flowing with doing other things first.

But I think sometimes, most of the time really, that’s what it is. You have to flow around doing the things you feel called to do, the aligned actions, and that’s where the inspiration, message and insight to share with the world comes from. we are!
Love you,
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Ariel Frey is an intuitive messenger, business mentor and visionary entrepreneur building an empire. She helps you create success from your soul and truly live free. Ariel is the host of the Babies, Biz, Beautiful Life Podcast! It’s packed with divine messages, practical wisdom from a self made multiple 6 figure business owner, and is everything about how to live your most beautiful life. Listen and subscribe here!

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Success Coach, writer, and all about making a global impact. In 1.5 years I went from working as a server to creating a quarter of a million dollar business.

Now I'm dedicated to helping driven female entrepreneurs like you make more money, have more freedom, and breakthrough to the next level to live your most extraordinary life.

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