When you don’t think it’s a fit, don’t take peoples money.

When you don’t think it’s a fit, don’t take peoples money.

Maybe this is obvious to you, but also maybe it’s not and that’s ok too. Sometimes it’s not obvious to people because it’s not what they are looking for.

Maybe this is you. So just keep reading. No shame, all gain here.

I know that there are many people not aware that there even is something such as a good fit for coaching or working together in any way.

The opposite idea of ‘good fit’ is ‘they are willing to pay me and that’s really exciting, so I’m going to say yes, send over the invoice and have a new clients. woo hoo!!!’

And it does feel woo hoo for a moment. It feels exciting, but then it feels like ehhhh why did I do that.

While I turn people down all the time who I don’t think are a good fit for my 1:1 highest level work or direct them to something else, I’ve definitely said hell yes when I meant hell to the mother f*cking no in other areas of my life an it always turns out the same way.

Not feeling too hot.
Usually pretty stressful.
You having the feeling that you don’t like the thing that you said yes to and manifesting something else instead, but sometimes that process doesn’t feel very good and has some drama involved.

So, let’s just stop all of that right now!

It’s about just saying yes when it feels like omggggggg this person will be so amazing for the work that I do and what they are looking for is exactly what I

for me this is an energy thing. It’s not a money thing. So for me it’s never ever (of course not) about how money money they make but also never about what level of income they are at. That doesn’t make a leader.

Where you are now has no bearing on where you can be moments from now energetically and then a week from now in reality because you held the feeling of what you want energetically.

So when someone says to me - well am I really far enough along to be your client, I say IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THAT. I say it lovingly and then remind them that it’s an energy thing and that they feel like a freakin leader to me so let’s get them leading and making all the money.

But I see it all the time in the online industry with the high end private level client level. People taking on clients who can pay them, but are not what they desire at all.

Now, those people are not bad in any way. They just are who they are. That’s fine!!! They are meant for anther fitting mentor who is perfect for them. A perfect match.

It’s like a relationship. You’d never be like - oo yeah I’m so excited that this person is going to buy me dinner at the best restaurant and has a really freaking expensive car, but they are a total douche at dinner and drive too fast which is sooo out of integrity for you (you love to obey the law) so then yeah I think I am going to stay with them for the next 3 months. Uh no.

Well…maybe you would, but then you aren’t my person, so you can keep reading for the value or breakthrough, but you might want to cut that out before you ask to work with me. With love, as always 💚

Maybe not the best analogy ever because the clients don’t have to be douches for you to say no, but you get the point.

If it’s not in integrity for you, meaning it’s not a hell yes, then say no and move on. No need to think one second more about it.

That’s how you create what you want.

1. You see what is in front of you. 
2. See what you don’t like about it and do like about it.
3. Choose to focus on what you do like about it and what else you’d like even more. 
4. Then you keep doing that until it arrives.

Ta-da!!! Clients you love, banging down your door to work with you.

Friends you love reaching out randomly for coffee even if you’ve never spoken to them before in real life, only social media life.

Your partner showing up all deliciously to treat you to a super fine date that is like a magical move…because you decide there was no other way.

You say no and then YES to the stuff you wanted.

Alright, you get it. So that’s all for now.
xo Ariel
PS actually it’s not all for now…I have one more thing to sayyyy and you’re going to freaking love it!!! My Highest Level, Elite, 1:1 mentorship is OPEN. It’s open right now, this instant for the badass industry leaders who know that you are that, but aren’t really showing up in this way yet and know you need to get over your bullshit, excavate it, lovingly release it, and move on in a gazelle like flow taking over the world aka internet as you lead the peoples to what they most desire.

Message me for details 💚


Ariel Frey is an intuitive messenger, business mentor and visionary entrepreneur building an empire. She helps you create success from your soul and truly live free. Ariel is the host of the Babies, Biz, Beautiful Life Podcast! It’s packed with divine messages, practical wisdom from a self made multiple 6 figure business owner, and is everything about how to live your most beautiful life. Listen and subscribe here!

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Success Coach, writer, and all about making a global impact. In 1.5 years I went from working as a server to creating a quarter of a million dollar business.

Now I'm dedicated to helping driven female entrepreneurs like you make more money, have more freedom, and breakthrough to the next level to live your most extraordinary life.

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